Gerund vs infinitive

In English, if you want to follow a verb with another action, you must use a gerund or infinitive. For example: 

  • We resumed talking (gerund - verb + ing)
  • I miss hanging out with my friends
  • I want to see a movie (infinitive - to + base verb)
  • She threatened to quit if she didn't get a raise
  • It started to rain/ It started raining (Both are correct)
There are certain verbs that can only be followed by one or the other, and these verbs must be memorized. Many of these verbs are listed below.

Common verbs followed by a gerund:

acknowledge

discuss

involve

recall

admit

dislike

give up (stop)

recollect

advise

dispute

keep (continue)

report

anticipate

dread

keep on

resent

appreciate

endure

loathe

resist

avoid

enjoy

mention

resume

be worth

escape

mind (object to)

risk

can't help

excuse

miss

save

celebrate

explain

necessitate

shirk

confess

fancy

pardon

shun

consider

fear

picture

suggest

contemplate

feel like
support

defend

feignpostponetolerate

delay

finishpracticeunderstand

detest

forgive

prevent

urge

discontinue

imagineputt offwarrant

Common verbs followed by an infinitive:

agree

determine

offer

shudder

appear

elect

pay

strive

arrange

endeavor

plan

struggle

ask

expect

prepare

swear

beg

fail

pretend

tend

can/can't afford

get

profess

threaten

can/can't wait

grow (up)

promise

turn out

care

guarantee

prove

venture

chance

hesitate

refuse

volunteer

choose

hope

remain

wait

claim

hurry

request

want

consent

inclineresolvewish

dare

learnsaywould like

decide

manageseekyearn
demand

needseem

Common verbs followed by a gerund or infinitive with little to no change in meaning:

allow

cease

love

propose

attempt

continue

intend

recommend

begin

deserveneglectstart

bother

fear

omit


can't bear

hate

permit


can't stand

likeprefer

Verbs followed by a gerund or infinitive with a change in meaning:

1. Forget
> I forgot to meet him (I didn't meet him because I forgot to do it)
> I forgot meeting him (I don't have the memory of meeting him before)

2. Go on
> He went on to learn English and French (He ended one period of time before this)
> He went on learning English and French (He continued learning the languages)

3. Quit
> She quit to work here (She quit another job in order to work here)
> She quit working here (She quit her job here. She doesn't work here anymore)

4. Regret
> I regret promising to help you (I'm sorry that I made the promise)
> I regret to tell you that we can't hire you (I'm telling you now, and I'm sorry)

5. Remember
> She remembered to visit her grandmother (She didn't forget to visit)
> She remembered visiting her grandmother (She had memories of this time)

6. Stop
> I stopped to call you (I interrupted another action in order to call you)
> I stopped calling you (I stopped this activity. Maybe we had a fight)

7. Try
>I tried to open the window (I attempted this action but didn't succeed)
>I tried opening the window (This was one option I sampled. Maybe the room was hot)

8. Come
> The book has come to mean something quite different for me (something happens or develops, perhaps outside the subject's control)
> My dog always comes bounding out of the car (Dog is doing something as they move)

9. Mean
> If you take that job in London it will mean traveling for two hours every day (express what the result of an action will be, or what will be necessary. The word mean could be replaced by the word involve)
> I mean to finish this job by the end of the week (express an intention or a plan. The word mean could be replaced by the word intend)

The gerund as the subject or object of the sentence
Ex: Flying makes me nervous
       Brushing your teeth is important
       I like eating coconut oil
       One of his duties is attending meetings
       The hardest thing about learning English is understanding the gerund
       One of life's pleasure is having breakfast in bed
       Jumping off a cliff is dangerous, but a real thrill

The gerund after prepositions.
Ex: Can you sneezing without opening your mouth?
       She is good at painting
       She avoided him by walking on the opposite side of the road
       We arrived in Madrid after driving all night
       My father decided against postponing his trip to Hungary
       There's no point in waiting
       Inspire of missing the train, we arrived on time
       I made dinner before getting home
       He looked unhappy after seeing his work schedule

The gerund after phrasal verbs (verb + preposition or adverb)
Ex: When will you give up smoking?
        She always putt off going to the dentist
        He kept on asking for money
        Jim ended up buying a new TV after his old one broke

There are some phrasal verbs that include the word 'to' as a preposition for example to look forward to, to take to, to be accustomed to, to get around to, to be used to. You can check whether 'to' is a preposition or part of the infinitive. If you can put the pronoun 'it' after the word 'to' and form a meaningful sentence, then the word 'to' is a preposition and must be followed by a gerund.
Ex: I look forward to hearing from you soon
       I look forward to it
       I am used to waiting for buses
       I am used to it
       She didn't really take to it
       When will you get around to mowing the grass?
       When will you get around to it?

The gerund in compound nouns
Ex: I am giving Sally a driving lesson (lesson for driving)
       They have a swimming pool in their back yard (pool for swimming)
       I bought some new running shoes (shoes for running)

The gerund after some expressions
Ex: She couldn't help falling in love with him
       I can't stand being stuck in traffic jams
       It's no use trying to escape
       It might be worth phoning the station to check the time of the train

Infinitives can be used after many adjectives
Ex: It is hard to make dinner this late.
       I find it difficult to describe my feelings about writing research essays

Infinitives can be used to show purpose
Ex: I left for Rusia to study Russian.
       I came to the office to solve the mystery of the missing keys. 

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Expressions that end in a preposition are generally followed by a gerund – a verb that ends in -ing. Here are four expressions that are followed by gerunds

  • I've thought about doing some professional development.
  • Jan's interested in coaching other employees.
  • He plans on getting his MBA.
  • I look forward to taking a night course.


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